A realisationhouse for the curious.

We gather to realise what is possible — in ourselves, between us, and in the world.

For the benefit of all beings
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Beings Club
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About

Beings Club is a realisationhouse for the curious.

At Beings Club we define curiosity as an orientation to experience that is open to discovery.Together, we explore two principles in curiosity.

realisationhouse[rɪəlaɪˈzeɪʃᵊnhaʊs]n.A social gathering place where contemplative practice is recognised and engaged as a means of realising new possibilities.

Stay curious

When we stay oriented to experience and open to discovery, what is important reveals itself and curiosity itself can deepen.

Curiosity connects

As curiosity deepens and more is revealed, we're more available to ourselves, each other, fresh ideas and new futures.

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Where it comes from

In the lineage of a tea house.

Beings Club exists because of a tea house at Plum Village, where I found myself in conversations over tea that expanded my sense of what is possible.

Beings Club is in the lineage of that atmosphere: a lineage of feeling, not a body of doctrine.

— John

Why it matters

Creativity is only ever limited by our sense of what's possible — and that sense is not fixed.

As connections deepen and new ones appear, what we see, how we relate, and our sense of what is possible all change. What is important can be realised inwardly; things of value can be realised in reality.

We hope more realisationhouses will arise.

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In their words

What it's like to be here.

“A space to slow down, reflect together, and make sense of things out loud.”
Ana C · Designer
“Genuine encounters with people whose timelines wouldn't typically intersect with mine.”
Zak EF · Engineer-philosopher
“I leave every time feeling more human, more like a being.”
The Dude
Salons Where curiosity connects Sits Meditation for the curious The Door Join the club

Joining starts with a conversation.

Leave us a note
Salons

Space to connect — to oneself, to each other, and to what is possible.

Every month we gather to take time for ourselves and to meet one another. Every Salon begins with meditation.

Following, members meet one-to-one and in groups of three. There are no prompts, no themes, and nothing to do except stay curious.

Nothing to prepare, nothing to have figured out.

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Duration
Two hours
Rhythm
Monthly
Time
7pm UK
Where
Online
Cost
Freely offered

How a Salon unfolds

The form stays reliable so what happens inside it can be free.

01

We sit together

About twenty minutes of meditation to open — individual practice, held in a shared field.

02

We explore together

Randomly allocated, one-to-one and in threes. Three invitations are offered — to be addressed as you prefer, to begin without words, and to stay curious.

03

We close together

Everyone comes back into one room to land, share a little if you'd like to, and close the space together.

Curiosity connects.

In their words

What it's like to be in a Salon.

“Genuine encounters with people whose timelines wouldn't typically intersect with mine.”
Zak EF · Engineer-philosopher
“A space to slow down, reflect together, and make sense of things out loud.”
Ana C · Designer
“I have had several experiences of being seen, heard, and held.”
Manansh S · Founder

The next Salon is Wednesday, September 30th, 7pm UK.

Come to the next one Why this exists
Sits

Meditation for the curious.

A Sit runs as a shared experiment over a set stretch of days — we each sit in our own lives, knowing that others are sitting the same days, and meet live once a week.

John hosts and teaches. The practices are rooted in contemplative traditions and he won't pretend otherwise — but this is a lineage of feeling, not a body of doctrine. Nothing asked of you as belief.

Sceptics welcome, but stay curious.

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Meditation is curiosity and care turned towards our experience.

Currently open

Beyond Belief: the art of trusting yourself.

A 35-day experiment in trusting yourself. Each week takes up one principle as a lens to bring into practice, not an idea to believe — and you're paired with a different lab partner to share the exploration with each week.

Curiosity. Care. Responsibility. Play. Rest.

Beyond Belief: The Art of Trusting Yourself — course cover
Format
35 days
Dates
15 Sep – 20 Oct
Time
6:30pm UK
Places
Ten max
Cost
Freely offered
In their words

What it's like to sit with John.

“John has this rare capacity to make you feel at ease, accepted, and guided.”
Laura F · Writer & teacher
“John's words are clear, lucid, and deeply supportive.”
Manansh S · Founder
“John's spiritual friendship changed how I experience life itself.”
Sean P · Founder

Beyond Belief.
Thirty-five days. One practice.

Take a place Start with a Salon instead
A Sit · ten people max · begins 15 September

Beyond Belief: the art of trusting yourself.

Thirty-five days of sitting, six Tuesday meetings, and a group of other people doing it with you. No experience needed, and nothing you have to believe.

Hosted by John.
Freely offered, online, 15 September – 20 October.

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Commitment
35 days
We gather
Six Tuesdays
Time
6:30pm UK
Places
Ten max
Cost
Freely offered
What it's for

Make friends with experience.

Trusting yourself isn't confidence that things will always go perfectly, and it isn't certainty about who you are. It's closer to a friendship — with yourself and life.

Meditation (sitting) is a way of turning towards our experience and befriending it. Over time, a sitting practice can shift the atmosphere of your experience into the qualities of friendship: gentleness, precision, and humour.

Beyond Belief is a guided exploration into befriending your direct experience. You're invited to come along and see what you discover.

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Why this long

Enough time for it to become yours.

Over 35 days there is time to grow in confidence with the practice of sitting and find your own ways of making it yours.

35 daysEach meeting introduces a principle; the daily practice makes it yours.
10 people maxSmall enough to go deep and get into what meditation really is.
5 lab partnersSomeone new to meditate with and discuss the practice with each week.
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The shape of it

Five ways of approaching, in an order that matters.

These aren't five topics. They're how a friendship gets built — one quality at a time, each week making the next one possible.

01 Curiosity 15 Sep Opening toward what's actually here, and discovering it.
02 Care 22 Sep Gentleness and warmth — turned toward yourself first, then outwards.
03 Responsibility 29 Sep The ability to respond to what arises — and meet need.
04 Play 6 Oct Giving yourself the generosity of "no wrong way to do it".
05 Rest 13 Oct Pausing every striving, and recognising space uncontrived and open.
06 The closing 20 Oct We look back over the thirty-five days together, and close.
Yours from the first day

Four things to support your practice.

A written companion

A map for practice. Yours from day one.

A practice log

A way to remember the days, and a record of staying the course.

A different lab partner each week

Someone new to meet, practice with, and discuss your findings with each week.

A private line to John

Available via voice-message and text for the whole thirty-five days for questions, doubts, and guidance.

In their words

What it's like to learn with John.

“John has this rare capacity to make you feel at ease, accepted, and guided.”
Laura F · Writer & teacher
“John's words are clear, lucid, and deeply supportive.”
Manansh S · Founder
“John's spiritual friendship changed how I experience life itself.”
Sean P · Founder

Thirty-five days. One practice.

Take a place Back to Sits

The Door · leave us a note

Hello John — my name is , and you can reach me at .

I'm curious about and or .

I found Beings Club through .

What's drawing me toward this is

How joining works
01

You send a few lines about yourself.

02

John replies, usually within a few days, and suggests a conversation.

03

If it's a mutual yes, John sends you invitations when what you're interested in is happening.